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The Unguarded Heart: Meeting Anger and Resentment with Love and Forgiveness

With Deborah Eden Tull recorded on April 1, 2018.

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In this talk, we explore anger, resentment, jealousy, and other difficult emotions – learning how to see clearly and meet anger with true love and acceptance. We explore our misunderstandings about anger and learn how to cultivate the compassionate presence that offers a vast and courageous expression of love. Compassion’s perception of anger is more nuanced than our small mind can perceive.

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