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Who Knows Best?: Exploring the Judging Mind

With Shaila Catherine recorded on July 14, 2024.

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In this Sunday Sangha session, we will address the common tendencies to judge and compare. Wise discernment is useful, but excessive comparing and compulsive judging can harm relationships, obscure the clarity of perception, and thwart spiritual development. This session includes practical suggestions for calming a harsh inner critic, while encouraging critical and thoughtful inquiry.

(Please note that there were unfortunately some internet connection issues at Shaila’s end during this session which show up on the recording.)

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