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You Are NOT Doomed: Breaking & Replacing Old Patterns

With Ronya Banks recorded on March 26, 2023.

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You may have noticed that sometimes breaking old patterns is hard to do! But thanks to surviving ancient Buddhist teachings, we are NOT doomed to being stuck in the rut of the same old painful behavioral and cognitive patterns, and we can create new helpful patterns. This talk explores the nature of the conditioned mind and gives practice tips on how to detangle, reset, and replace unhelpful karmic patterns and ultimately experience more freedom in our daily and spiritual lives.

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