All of our dharma practice is done in relation to something. We’re essentially always in relation to whatever we’re paying attention to. And, we might say that, in order for our dharma practice to progress, we need to be in good relation to four things: the dharma, ourselves, our meditation object and, in general, to our environment. How can we bring ourselves into a good relationship to all that is as it is?
With Beth Upton recorded on April 5, 2026.
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